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    NTU valedictorian apologises for F-word slip

    Communication Studies valedictorian Trinetta Chong delivers her speech at the graduating batch's convocation ceremony. (Screengrab: YouTube)Communication Studies valedictorian Trinetta Chong delivers her speech at the graduating batch's convocation ceremony. …

    A Nanyang Technological University (NTU) valedictorian has apologised for using the F-word in her graduation speech last Friday, saying it was said in the "spur of the moment".

    23-year-old communication studies graduate Trinetta Chong was addressing about 170 of her classmates and slightly less than 300 post-graduate students at the Nanyang Auditorium, located in the university campus, and concluded her rousing six-minute speech with "We f**king did it!"

    A video of the speech, which was uploaded onto YouTube on Friday night,  has garnered over 1,200 views over two days, sparking debate over her use of the swear word

    See the video here:

    But while Ms Chong has apologised for dropping the F-bomb, she said it had to be taken in the context of her entire speech.

    "The F-word was said in the spirit of the moment," she told Yahoo! Singapore. "At that point, I was feeling really emotional, after 16 years of education and all we had been through... it slipped out. It wasn't scripted at all," she added.

    Ms Chong said the script for her speech had been vetted and approved by senior faculty and the Chair of the Wee Kim Wee School of Communication and Information, and confirmed that it did not include the line.

    "(The line) really reflected how I felt at that time, and I think it resounded with other students from our graduating class too," she said.

    "The media or other Singaporeans hearing the speech may simply think that the word was said to sensationalise the speech, but this was definitely not my intention at all."

    That said, she sincerely regrets saying what she did.

    "I said it at that time because I was feeling all those emotions, but I deeply apologise if I offended anyone," she said.

    "I also realise on hindsight that it was inconsiderate because convocation should be a family-friendly event, and that word wasn't family-friendly. I should have been mindful of keeping the speech family-friendly," she added.

    Media blitz; netizens give mixed responses

    Local media reported Ms Chong's use of the swear word over the weekend. Tabloid Lianhe Wanbao wrote that the ending line of her speech "stunned" members of the audience, while news of her speech turned up on micro-blogging site Weibo, and Omy, which reposted Lianhe Wanbao's story.

    Yahoo! Singapore understands that some of the comments made on the YouTube video that were quoted by the newspaper were taken out of context, however.

    In particular, one user, with the nickname markcenite, whom Yahoo! Singapore understands made a comment in mock-horror on the video in jest, was paraphrased and taken literally by the newspaper, among others taken off the thread on the same clip.

    Netizens have since given mixed responses to Ms Chong's speech, which has started making its rounds on Facebook and Twitter.

    Facebook user Phyllis Seet wrote in Mandarin, "Is there no other way for (Ms Chong) to express her years of hardship and emotions? Must such vulgar language be used; is there no other creative way of expressing it? No wonder we are so far away from a graceful society."

    Another user, Li Liang, took a more positive view, however, saying, "I approve! Our media enterprise of the future will certainly perform more outstandingly and courageously, and honestly speaking, I do look forward to it."

    University, friends and family show support

    The University has also thrown its weight behind Ms Chong.

    NTU released a statement on Sunday night, saying the mood was "highly-charged" at the point of her speech, and believes that she was likely to have gotten carried away.

    "The graduands at Ceremony 14 were in extremely high spirits on Friday evening. There was a lot of clapping and cheering throughout the ceremony so by the time the valedictorian Trinetta delivered her speech, the audience were in a highly charged mood," the spokesperson said, adding that Ms Chong had since written to the chair of the Wee Kim Wee School, Dr Benjamin Detenber, to apologise.

    "Thankfully, he (Dr Detenber) told me not to worry too much about it," Ms Chong added with relief.

    The valedictorian said that her parents were initially shocked at her words as well.

    "They definitely don't condone the use of swear words, and were shocked initially, but took it in their stride, accepted it and moved on... they were very understanding in that aspect," she said.

    NTU lecturer Lau Joon-Nie, 41, who was part of the school faculty present at the ceremony, said that Ms Chong's speech was very warm, likening the Wee Kim Wee School to Hogwarts, the magical school in J. K. Rowling's Harry Potter series.

    "It was a very personal and heartfelt speech that the audience could identify with," she said. "She (Ms Chong) meant no ill-intent and did not intend to be rude. It was quite likely in a fit of exuberance that she expressed what she did," Ms Lau added.

    Several of Ms Chong's classmates who gave her a rousing standing ovation at the end of her speech also defended her, whilst other graduands took to social media platforms to express their admiration and pride of her courage.

    "(Ms Chong) encapsulated our lives in the past four years, the highs and lows, and the support we had from our lecturers, in six very engaging minutes," said classmate Kuek Jinhua, 25.

    "To zoom in on the F-word as an exclamation of representative euphoria in the last five seconds of it is a gross misrepresentation of the speech," he said.

    "Yes, that's the kind of language we go by these days," said 22-year-old Rasyida Samsudin, another Wee Kim Wee graduate. "It's not demeaning or anything; it's just our way of expressing extreme emotions -- in this case, extreme excitement."

    Parents present at the ceremony were understanding of her use of the word as well.

    48-year-old Rasida bte Abdul Rashid said she thought it was acceptable for Ms Chong to say what she did. "Standards of this generation are different from mine," she added.

    What do you think -- is using the F-word permissible depending on the context or should Ms Chong have known better?

    With additional reporting by Liyana Low

     
     
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    1,055 comments

    • prophecy  •  8 months ago
      For those who criticises are just a bunch of hypocrites as if they never used F-word in their lifetime.
      Trinetta chong, you dont have to apologise for using the ultimate communication F-word to anyone because it was just "spur of the moment" as you said. I liked..
      • 叉叉 5 months ago
        Well then, F*^k YOU, YOU F@£king F#*ked UP FA%KER...

        Now, you'd definitely appreciate HONESTY, won't you?

        You can "Liked" anything you want in your life, "spur of the moment" or otherwise. But that's YOUR life. So, keep it to yourself, then.
    • Lai  •  9 months ago
      I think Trinetta had used it so often when talking with her friends. I feel that all parents should teach their kids that such words are not appropriate for educated people. Anyway, it turned out to be good that she has sincerely apologised and learnt from her mistake since.
    • Mama Sha  •  9 months ago
      Vulgarity is still vulgarity, no matter how you look at it! even if her teachers and NTU approved it. what I see is communication at its lowest level! bad job1
    • Fairytales  •  9 months ago
      1. It reflects her upbringing..not surprised if the word is frequently used at home..because she dared to say it to the face of her parents and many other people's parents and families..don't forget graduation is a family event.
      2. It lowered the pride and value of the graduation.. a proud and prestigious moment turned vulgar and cheap like a back alley...
      3. Was it a slip? If it was, she would have apologised or shown remorse on the spot as did Jade Seah..this vulgar girl walked of smiling and laughing..think she made her parents so proud..
      4. Emotionally charged moment? NTU wake up..this is an example of your product and you condoned it by having your lecturers say it was an emotionally charged moment? Please don't cheapen our NTU degrees. We want to be respected, ok? The joke is now - oh, you are from NTU, the f****ing valedictorian university...What a disgrace to the University and Singapore's youth!
    • lim  •  9 months ago
      ps note -she did not sincerely apologise at all but kept defending herself and justifying her mistake
    • Rascal  •  9 months ago
      NTU, I am amazed the "Product" that you have delivered. I am more astonished on your casual stand on this matter. You deserve a pat on your back.
    • Chieftain  •  9 months ago
      She's probably stoned or drunk or both when making this speech. Why? Who in their right mind wld say 'pee in my pants' and screamed the F-word in front of the entire audience? Insane.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  9 months ago
      It is definitely inappropriate and incorrect to use such a foul word and launguage in such an occasion. Explaining that the word came out in "a spur of the moment" is just an excuse hoping to get away with the act of using the wrong language and this just make the whole matter worst. From what it seems, such a word might be habitually used or frequently used by Ms Chong, henceforth without thinking, she just blurted the word out without finding/replacing it with a better/appropriate word, because it is so natural to use the word already. Also at the ceremony, does it mean that only Ms Chong is "highly-charged" whereas all the others are like stone or wood? So does it mean that once she is "highly-charged" , she is incapable to think clearly or properly? Did she drink too much or worst without drinking any alcohol she is already not able to think properly? This is seriously disgraceful to the university and shameful of Ms Chong!
    • C5  •  9 months ago
      I'll tell you why that "F" word slipped out. She used it so often during conversation with friends. Young people should be taught that such words isn't appropriate for educated people.
      Anyway, let's move on since she sincerely apologized.
      • FTM 9 months ago
        ooh.....F%# good....
      • Avery Mann 9 months ago
        Nowadays, many young people, even so-called "educated" ones, use the f-word so routinely thinking it's cool. In the past, when a child utters a vulgar word, he gets a slap on the mouth from the parents. Vulgarities were considered uncool, coarse and unacceptable language used by illiterate labourers, secret society members and the scum of society.
      • skk 9 months ago
        let us all not lose any sleep over the F-word when we ourselves are sometimes guilty of using it. It's common language amongst youngsters and adults these days and I am certain there was no malice intended when the F-word is used.

        it's just the way the word is being used today. I am sure most of you have seen/heard that video clip on the use of the f-word. It's really not that serious if you have intention to offend somebody. Take it with a pinch of salt please.
    • Locke  •  9 months ago
      At the end of her 16 year education, she has proven that she learnt nothing....
    • Jumbo  •  9 months ago
      This is the product of our education over the last 40 years. Why? Nothing is taught about ethics in class except the "study to survive" syndrome.
      Look at the public areas eg. Shopping complex, Restaurants, MRT etc. you will see lots of foul languages used by young people including girls!
      Just one example about ethics...no one stands up for the needy in buses?MRTs. Young people rush in to sit without shame on seats reserved for the needy!
      • Nenita Moraga 9 months ago
        Jumbo, I totally agree with you. She is a product of comprehensive sex education which declares that we are now living in a secular and egalitarian society so that anything goes. Ethics is relative. Ms Chong is sending the message that the F-word is acceptable because everybody is saying it. Jump into the bandwagon. Don't worry about ethics. They're obsolete. Moral of the story -- don't send your children to NTU
      • Lim 9 months ago
        because one student says the F word during her convo speech means don't send your children to NTU
        get a life Nenita
        find me one uni tat doesn't have one student who speaks this word
      • Avery Mann 9 months ago
        It's convenient to blame the education system. What about the parents? Many parents nowadays push the duty of teaching values and manners to the school. They adopt a friendly approach in their children's upbringing and leave the disciplining to the school. If parents can't even discipline 1 or 2 kids, where do the teachers find the time to monitor the hundreds of students they teach? Each teacher has several classes of 35-40 students.
    • choo  •  9 months ago
      whoever works under her will have to ensure not to f-around with her as she will go around f-king everyone without a darn just as she had shown without any respect for the person attending the graduation in this formal setting. low class.
    • SS  •  9 months ago
      Nothing compare to this........http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=Q23sodJ0SIg........
    • lucy  •  9 months ago
      Ask her to f....k spider. wanted to follow the ang mo style. she graduate with a f...king degrees
    • -  •  9 months ago
      she is just lost in words....
    • Gary  •  9 months ago
      u have set a bad example to the next generation, too late for apolo---- !
    • Gary  •  9 months ago
      every generation set an example to the next, if parents and teacher says this is ok, i think ms chong kids will think its ok to say the f*** words infront of her too ! do u think she is ok with that ? ask yourself
    • Jeanie  •  9 months ago
      Her parents must be feeling embarrassing instead of proud...
    • NO 1  •  9 months ago
      I think she use it so often and I also think it practise it every day with guys that she think is normal like animal
    • wakeup  •  9 months ago
      This is the product of our government's obsession for talent over moral education. Remember the couple (scholarship students) who walked naked down Holland V, teachers on MOE sponsorships caught in pornography, lustful acts..etc

      High literacy and knowledge does not implies wholesome (inculcation of right values) education!
      Our local thespian ‘talents’ and media community are so filled with lusts and infested with pro-gay activists. A case in point below:

      Quote
      Then came the period when Beatrice Chia-Richmond, 36, who joined in 2001 as artistic director, led Toy Factory into its sexy phase.
      She introduced a series of provocative and sex-filled romps such as Shopping And F***ing (2001), a graphic British play about violence, sex and drugs; Fireface (2002), which dealt with necrophilia and incest; and Bent (2003), about the persecution of homosexuals in Nazi Germany.
      Ribbing Chia-Richmond, Goh says: 'She's a real pervert. There's something inside me that wants to do this kind of thing, but I'll never dare to do it. She's the one who has appeared nude in FHM, not me.
      'She's very sensual and very brave in confronting her own sexuality. She's contemporary.' Unquote
      (Extract from ST article dated 22 July 2010)

      All in the name of contemporary and creativity! When it comes to sex and perversion, the sky is the limit. A truly educated individual does not merely possess knowledge and follow changes blindly but has the ability set boundary judiciously and exercise self-control.

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