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    Obedient Wives Club in Malaysia promotes good sex

    RAWANG, Malaysia (AP) — A Malaysian Muslim group has launched the "Obedient Wives Club" to teach women to be submissive and keep their spouses happy in the bedroom as a cure to social ills.

    The club's vice president, Rohayah Mohamad, says wives must learn to be good lovers so they can "obey, serve and entertain" their husbands to prevent them from straying or misbehaving.

    Activists and politicians slam the club launched Saturday as misguided and a setback to the rights of Muslim women.

    The club was founded by the Global Ikhwan group, which launched a Polygamy Club two years ago. Global Ikhwan comprises former members of the banned Al-Arqam Islamic sect. The government has said it is keeping an eye on the group amid concerns it could be an effort to revive the sect.

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    • sah  •  11 months ago
      how about starting a GOOD HUSBANDS CLUB where the concept is "loyalty, respect, and unconditional love".
      • plain_83 11 months ago
        A very brilliant n lovely idea indeed, nice~
      • Yu 11 months ago
        110% agree with you but I wonder they are happy with that idea....
      • LylaB 11 months ago
        very well said... thumbs up!!!
    • tikichie  •  11 months ago
      this is sex slavery for women. I am objecting to this kind of animal act.
      • mac12 11 months ago
        @Tikichie, of course this is sex slavery, imagine the significance of it that the woman had to comply with the demands of her husband as what to fulfil in order to have an 'orderly home'. In the interview that was conducted with the founder of the club, she mentioned she was glad to have this kind of arrangement cos it free her to to what she wanted, given that she had considerably more free time on her hand and who knows what she does when away from her husband and home. She equated the significance of the performances of muslim women in Malaysia as akin to 'prostitutes', something terribly horrendous if you are a woman in malaysia.
      • Amie 11 months ago
        Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww Bless yo lil heart.
      • Supersonic Boom 11 months ago
        I vote for you.
    • bing  •  11 months ago
      Sex should be enjoyed by both husband & wife. Submissive or not, if men are unskilled on how to please his wife/partner, sex will never be good at all.
      • Phichai 11 months ago
        yes, i think so.
    • Abdul Shafiq  •  11 months ago
      TAFSIR 4:34 (by Ibn Abbas)
      (con't) ............ (As for those from whom ye fear) know (rebellion) their DISOBEDIENCE TO YOU IN BED, (admonish them) by means of sacred knowledge and the Qur'an (and banish them to beds apart) turn your faces away from them in bed, (and scourge them) in a mild, unexaggerated manner. (Then if they obey you) in bed, (seek not a way against them) as regards love. ........(con't)
      * Please google (TAFSIR USC) and read the whole Tafsir for this verse 4:34. Note that TAFSIR is the OFFICIAL intepretation and expansion of the Quran verse.
      • A Yahoo! User 11 months ago
        Yes, I do agree that the Koran and the Hadith have a lot a lot to say about sex, women, obedient to husbands. And prophet Mohamed shows a great example of how women should behavor and to submit to their husband sexually.

        How the question is - why Muslims need to launch "Obedient Wives Club" to teach women about serving their husbands with great SEX?? why don't they just read their holy books?

        Why all the trumpet blowing ...
    • Nathalie  •  11 months ago
      How about a "no husband neccessary club" and basically get rid of all this male rubbish. Avoid Malaysia for having a brain stone infection.
      • hopkumo 11 months ago
        LIKE that idea. BARBARIAN males as usual .
      • sarah 11 months ago
        count me in.
      • Amie 11 months ago
        Ahuk ahuk ahuk. Ya Hick!
    • Saleha Ton  •  10 months ago
      and what about something to teach the husbands to be good lovers to their wives " to prevent them from straying or misbehaving" ? unless there's no such thing as a wife "straying or misbehaving"?
    • pat  •  11 months ago
      Good sex or not, many men will still want varieties....
    • ilyas  •  11 months ago
      To me for muslims, I think every thing about how to have sexual intercourse between husband and wife is clearly mentioned in our religion Islam. Islam is a perfect religion. I think we just need to follow QURAN and our prophet(PBUH) life. Every thing will be and we will not be in need of such clubs. Wassalam
      Khan
    • Gracian  •  11 months ago
      guess it is finally official. malaysia is a country of 1st class Pro and pervert men! according to report in ST, the club aims to teach women to be "better than 1st/world class prostitutes in order to keep the men from straying". wow and who is going to teach the classes? a world class prostitutes? so is the malaysia govt gonna out-source this to some high class call girls? isn't this going against Islam?

      welcome to the new Stone Age. malaysia has just set a new world low for women. i pity all the women in malaysia cos they are seen as nothing more than just an object in bed; this is govt answer to prevent/reduce all the rapes cases.
    • bipasha  •  11 months ago
      Grow up and have some respect for women. What made them think that sexual dissatisfaction is the only reason which leads to divorce? Do they know that even in a marital relationship, rape can occur? Or are they leading towards what should be called sex slavery?
    • Humayun  •  11 months ago
      In islam it is all taught how to perform the sexual desire. In Quran and Hadith it all explined in detail. I do not see any club needs to teach this. In fact both husband and wife needs to understand and help each other in this matter. Please read Quran and follow the Hadith, it all explained and no need to go to a club for this. All muslims must know what is halaal & haram.
    • AjFatma  •  11 months ago
      Strongly do keep eagle eyes on this club founded by the Global Ikhwan group.Its may has a good intention for marriage that losing the vows...But strongly do amend the statement from
      The club's vice president, Rohayah Mohamad, says wives must learn to be good lovers so they can "obey, serve and entertain" their husbands to prevent them from straying or misbehaving.

      We are new age women who are independant and career women,regardless of our race and religious.Many of us are single parent whom taking care our children with our hard earned money with our skills and brain...Therefore,we are not stone age women whom under knee of men especially men whom measure SEX MORE THEN FAMILY....DO NOT PUT THAT AS WE,WOMEN ARE GOOD FOR SEX,ENTERTAIN HUSBAND AS SEX SLAVE!...
      Suggestion: Create a club for both women and men,the learn the meaning of LOVE,MARRIAGE,RELIGIOUS..ESPECIALLY RESPONSIBILITIES IN THE MARRIAGE AND CHILDREN....SEx YOU talking about here is encouraging those men whom very low understanding of religious and 'HUSBAND'S RESPONSIBILITIES'...felling deliciously of your topic which DISGRACE WOMEN....
    • Farah Kouw  •  11 months ago
      Marriage is not bout the SEX things only!! Obey words sounds too degrade and lower the women, yes i know as a wife we should make our husband happy in many ways but IF the husbands treat their wives nicely too. Its not women's fault if their husbands cheat on them by having sex with other women because the 'unsatisfied' reason. Those kind of men are simply have betrayed their commitment and surely not a good husband.
    • ranaa  •  11 months ago
      Shame on those stupids!! Neither it is islamic, nor it is rational..! it will promote inequality.
    • ziana  •  11 months ago
      love it , but i cant joint now....or may be i can joint to gain knowledge..... can i
    • Imam Rahim Gul  •  11 months ago
      Sahih Bukhari Volume 4, Book 54, Number 537:
      Narrated Abu Huraira:The Prophet said "If a house fly falls in the drink of anyone of you, he should DIP IT (IN THE DRINK), for one of its wings has a disease and the other has the cure for the disease."

      Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64:
      Narrated 'Aisha:
      that the Prophet married her when she was SIX years old and he consummated his marriage when she was NINE years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).

      Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 52:
      Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah and Salama bin Al-Akwa':
      While we were in an army, Allah's Apostle came to us and said, "You have been allowed to do the Mut'a (marriage), so do it." Salama bin Al-Akwa' said: Allah's Apostle's said, "If a man and a woman agree (to marry temporarily), their marriage should last for THREE NIGHTS, and if they like to continue, they can do so; and if they want to separate, they can do so." I do not know whether that was only for us or for all the people in general. Abu Abdullah (Al-Bukhari) said: 'Ali made it clear that the Prophet said, "The Mut'a marriage has been cancelled (made unlawful)."

      Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 13o:
      Narrated 'Abdullah:
      We used to participate in the holy battles led by Allah's Apostle and we had nothing (no wives) with us. So we said, "Shall we get ourselves castrated?" He forbade us that and then allowed us to marry women with a TEMPORARY CONTRACT (2) and recited to us: -- 'O you who believe ! Make not unlawful the good things which Allah has made lawful for you, but commit no transgression.' (5.87)
    • Don Silva  •  11 months ago
      I wander whether they teach oral sex? In Islam if i am not mistaken it is " Haram" then in these case how the wives going to satisfied the husband maybe change the show down for a while. Husbands love to give Conettossssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wives don't like then they give to others.
    • Mohammad Musa  •  11 months ago
      There’s a Christian discussion chat-room called CHRIST IS LORD, at PALTALK website. Many Christians are converting to Islam there because Imams are in there reasoning and sharing with Christians there, and winning them over. Please go in to learn from these imams so u can also make victory for Allah and also give moral support. Its a VERY INTERESTING & LIVELY chat-room. Inshallah.
      Room open DAILY from 9am to 2pm.
    • kabir of sindh  •  11 months ago
      a development of any society can be judged by the social position of women. (KARL MARX). The old social, cultural and clasical family norms are breaking fastly and these theologins,priest,mulla,pandit think that with the obidiency of wife ,it can be countered. Ignorance has never helped anybody (Again KARL MARX)
    • Muhammad Musa  •  11 months ago
      There’s a Christian discussion chat-room called CHRIST IS LORD, at PALTALK website. Many Christians are converting to Islam there because Imams are in there reasoning and sharing with Christians from Quran Tafsirs and Hadiths, and winning them over. Please go in to learn from these imams so u can also make victory for Allah by sharing with your friends. Its a VERY INTERESTING & LIVELY & POLITE chat-room. Inshallah.
      Room open DAILY from 9am to 2pm.

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