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    How overseas Filipinos can win the battle against unbearable utang

    San Francisco (Philippine Daily Inquirer/ANN) - Tony Ranque worked for years in Saudi Arabia where he faced a dilemma other overseas Filipinos have probably encountered: The longer he worked abroad, the bigger his debt grew.

    ¿Imagine the worst situation, when my credit cards, all five of them, were used up to their maximum credit limits," he told me.

    Eventually, overwhelming financial burden combined with the strain of separation led to the collapse of his marriage.

    Today, Tony is one of many Filipinos using their experiences to take on a pressing need: Helping other overseas Pinoys and their families become smarter with money and debt.

    There¿s so much to explore on this subject. Readers have helped me do just that by sharing their own stories on their struggles with financial burdens - particularly with unbearable utang.

    One U.S. reader tells of a Pinay whose relationships failed over disagreements over her desire to send US$700 a month to her family back home.

    Another reader spoke of Filipinos who worked on cruise ships who told him how ¿the amount they sent [to families] amounted to nothing later on." One of them turned to drinking to forget his anger and frustration, he said.

    An OFW from Saudi also wrote me about how she moved to the Middle East in order to pay off her debts, but the process has taken longer than she expected. She¿s struggling to explain to her family ¿why I¿m not sending much," she said.

    But she¿s also gearing up ¿toward the positive side," she added, ¿after having the strength to say NO to some requests."

    By the ¿positive side," she meant that state in which she¿s in control of her finances. It¿s an important state to be in as the world slips into another time of economic uncertainty.

    Dr. Macky Galvez, a pediatrician based in Manila, spoke of his own work with OFWs and their families, in a local cooperative. That experience brought home a key realization.

    ¿OFWs should and must undergo financial literacy to protect and harness their money which is more often lost and squandered," he said.

    Let¿s affirm a key premise here: Overseas Filipinos perform a vital role by sending money back home to help their families. But there¿s also a growing need for families to find better ways to manage funds coming from abroad.

    And we¿re not talking about totally avoiding debt. In many cases, as I¿ve noted, debt is necessary to meet a need.

    But there¿s such a thing as smart debt and dumb debt. Worse, there is unbearable utang - debt that becomes so overwhelming that overseas Filipinos end up wearing themselves out as they find themselves trapped in a vicious cycle.

    Charito Basa, an OFW advocate based in Europe, listed four general principles for overseas Filipinos and their families (which actually applies to everyone in this time of crisis):

    Have a budget and stick it to it no matter what

    ¿There¿ll be special requests from family and friends that will tempt migrants to deviate from their budget," she says. ¿Be firm. People will eventually understand that they are doing it for the good of everyone."

    Save first, before spending (not the other way around)

    Set aside a fixed amount for savings. Charito recommends at least 10 percent of one¿s income. She and Tony Ranque point to the tested formula for sound personal finance management: Income minus Savings equals Expenses.

    ¿Saving a portion of your income is a must, not an option," Tony says. ¿If you cannot develop the habit of savings which is founded on discipline, force yourself to save by getting pension plans and other types of pre-need plans."

    Have insurance (health, education, retirement, pensions)

    ¿When done through reputable companies, insurance plans can guarantee that needs are attended professionally and that funds are available when most needed," says Charito.

    Stay away from ¿get-rich-quick¿ schemes

    This rule also applies to everyone.

    Imagine this: Someone¿s offering you some investment plan with eye-popping returns. Sounds tempting. But the smart approach is to ask very tough, detailed questions. Or simply walk away. Chances are it¿s either a wild scheme, or even a scam.

    There are many groups offering financial literacy training to overseas Filipinos and their families.

    Charito cites the work of Atikha Overseas Workers and Communities Initiative which gives hands-on budgeting training. The group also conducts training sessions for overseas workers on such topics as ¿How to say NO," ¿When to say NO," and ¿Why the need to say NO."

    For some Filipinos like Tony Ranque, getting out of the debt cycle meant making tough, even painful, decisions.

    This happened when he turned 50 several years ago. Frustrated with the seemingly endless cycle of work and debt, he began setting a different course.

    ¿I slowly paid all my debts until I was debt free." He then quit his job in Saudi Arabia, and started all over - back in the Philippines.

    He invested his savings, including starting an e-learning center/Internet café in his hometown in Bohol.

    Tony¿s story may be unique. Other Filipinos, especially those helping out families with serious needs, may have a harder time breaking out of the cycle. But his experience at least shows there¿s a way out for others.

    Tony eventually became a regular speaker at financial literacy seminars geared to overseas Filipinos and their families. During one seminar, he told his audience about some of his former fellow workers in Saudi Arabia who, to his surprise, asked to be rehired in that country - even after they had reached retirement age.

    ¿Sino kaya ang mas mapalad sa ngayon? Ako na nakauwi na, na ang buhay ay halos masasabing ¿isang kahig, isang tuka?' O iyong mga dati kong kasamahan sa Saudi na inabot na ng retirement age doon eh nagpa-rehire pa?" (¿Who¿s luckier? I who was able to come home and now lives a simple life? Or my former colleagues in Saudi Arabia, who ended up working there until they retired ¿and now is asking to be re-hired?")

    He makes less money now than when he was working abroad, Tony told me. But he¿s happier. ¿I believe I am now living a more fulfilling life than ever before."

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    22 comments

    • jing  •  9 months ago
      OFW ako, wla ako utang!.. bow..
    • Sr.San Vicente  •  9 months ago
      Self Descipline at maging masaya sa ano mang meron ka...Its you who controls your fate.
      • ___ 9 months ago
        good...
    • virginia  •  9 months ago
      Dapat lahat tayo ay matalino o di kaya ay masinop sa lahat ng pera na mapapasa kamay natin.
      It is not what we have that matters, It is what we do with what we have that really matters.
      we overlook the received and money from our relatives from abroad, we always put in mind that malaki ito kaya gasta lang tayo ng gasta. We depended solely on it. That we careless for the future. So in the end, mahirap pa rin yon umuuwe na workers from abroad. Pero kung dito naman ang trabaho, kahit maliit pwedeng mag kasya. Di ba ganyan ang utak ng pinoy. Maramin akong kilala na OFW, 5 years to 10 years na sa abroad pero hangang ngayon e squatters pa rin.
      Kasi inuuna ang luho at kayabangan. Tapos kapag wala ng pera ipagbili na lahat ito.
    • Perseus  •  9 months ago
      Naalala ko tuloy yung isang kaibigan ko na namasukan bilang domestic helper sa Riyadh. Nabaon kasi siya sa utang dahil na rin sa mga taong malapit sa kanya. Napilitan siyang mag-abroad dahil yung asawa nya, hindi makahanap ng trabaho, sugarol kasi, at nalulong dito. Tatlo ang iniwan nyang anak sa Pilipinas, na mga teenagers na rin nung umalis siya. Naiwan sa biyenan nya mga anak nya. Ang ending, buong angkan nung asawa nya, siya na rin ang bumubuhay. Halos di na matulog kaibigan ko kakakayod maghapon sa bahay ng amo, madalas sapak at tadyak pa inaabot nya dahil may pagkasadista yung mga amo nya. Pero hindi nya ito makwento sa pamilya dahil ayaw nyang mag-alala ang mga ito. Pero imbes na swerte ang maging kapalit nito. Nagtatampo pa yung biyenan pag may nededelay na padala. Yung hipag, nagalit pa sa kanya nung hindi nya napagbi----ang pag-aralin yung dalawang pamangkin nya dito. Nung maospital naman yung isa nyang bayaw dahil nasaksak sa kalasingan, sinumbatan pa siya. Ang hindi nila alam, iniipit lang nung amo sahod nya hindi sila mapagbi----an. Yung asawa naman, hindi naman pala iniipon padalang pera, sinusugal lang. Yung isang anak na nalulong sa bisyo, sinisisi pa nanay nya dahil kasalanan daw ng nanay nya bakit sya nagkaganun, umalis daw kasi sya eh. Yung mga kamag-anak, susulat at tatawag lang, kapag may kailangan, pero may nabigay na, hindi na mangangamusta. Pag hindi napagbi----an, sila pa galit. Nabaon sa utang ang kaibigan ko na hanggang ngayon, pinagbabayaran nya.

      Hay. Sana naman, sa mga kababayan natin na may kamag-anak na OFWs na nagpapadala sa atin. Intindihin naman natin sila dun, sila kahit anong hirap dinadanas nila, hangga't maililihim nila sa atin, gagawin nila, wag lang tayong mag-alala. Pero bakit yung ilan sa atin, napakaliit na bagay, na kayang-kayang namang solusyunan dito, eh kailangan pang sabihin at ipaproblema sa kanila?Hindi ba natin naisip pwede makadagdag sa stress nila yun?Yung perang pinapadala nila, gamitin sa tama, huwag maging maluho sa hindi naman kailangan, hindi nila pinupulot lang ang pera, pinagpapaguran nila. Kung hindi agad mapagbi----an agad sa hiling mo, intindihin mo, hindi yung manunumbat ka. Kamustahin sila, hindi lang oras na may kailangan tayo, kundi ipakita natin miss natin sila, hindi yung padala nila.

      Sa mga OFWs na walang sawang kumakayod para sa pamilya nila dyan, lagi kayong mag-iingat at nawa'y pagpalain at gabayan kayo ng Diyos.
      • Sniper 9 months ago
        I totally agree. Two thumbs-up for you at sa mga OFWs natin.
      • Ms Farmer 9 months ago
        your right!! naranasan ko yan,,,
      • Paul 9 months ago
        toink! tahahaha...pwede tele novela!
    • jepoy  •  5 months ago
      You can save as much as 50% of your income if you want...its about discipline... live simply and dream big.
    • jepoy  •  5 months ago
      You can save as much as 50% of your income if you want...its about discipline... live simply and dream big.
    • joel  •  6 months ago
      mahirap talaga may utang, unahin ang saving then investment
    • george  •  7 months ago
      @Jing pareho tayo walang utang. Kasi I don't spend more than what I can make in a month. Hindi kasi ako na ngungutang ng pera para lang ipautang din or ibigay lang. I save my income 50%, I spend only 25%, and I give (charity) 25% kaya may savings pa ako. Basta ang savings ko ay laging constant 50%. Pero ang expenses at charity ay changeable depend on circumstances.
    • lajon  •  7 months ago
      dapay kC mapakinabangan na yung sa OWWA pra hindi na sa mga loan sharks babagsak ang mga OFW. tinuring pa nman tayong mga bagong bayani..tst..tsk!
    • ujin  •  7 months ago
      mahirap nga ang maraming utang, kasi hirap magbayad. Dito sa Canada lahat pede utangin at hulugan.
    • Eagle from Davao  •  9 months ago
      (1Ti 6:6) But godliness with contentment is great gain.
      (1Ti 6:7) For we have brought nothing into the world, and it is plain that neither can we carry anything out.
      (1Ti 6:8) But having food and clothing, we will be satisfied with these.
      (1Ti 6:9) But those purposing to be rich fall into temptation, and a snare, and many foolish and hurtful lusts, which plunge men into ruin and destruction.
      (1Ti 6:10) For the love of money is a root of all evils, by means of which some having lusted after it were seduced from the faith, and they themselves pierced through by many pains.
      (1Ti 6:11) But you, O man of God, flee these things and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, and meekness.
    • Deaconblue  •  Adelaide, Australia  •  5 months ago
      Learn to say 'No'! That is the key...it's for the rainy days ahead in all of us...
    • Honeeey  •  6 months ago
      Tama, malaki ang temptation ng pinoy lalo na kapag ma sale sa department store or malls or markets usually iniisip na mkakatipid kpag bumili ng marami, pero ang totoo mas npapagastos ka sa dami pero hindi mo naman talga kailangan, at yung isip ng pinoy na gusto"in" at sunod sa uso, at updated sa mga new things, Dami binibili na foods pero nasasayang lang. Kailangan lang talaga umiwas sa temptation to spend more than you NEED.
      At kapag wala ka list ng GOAL, mapapariwara ka talaga. In every earnings you should look back what is your purpose, hindi rin maganda na ubusin ipadala sa pinas kasi inaabuso din lang ng kamag anak. We tend to spoil our loved ones also, na iniisip umasa na lang sa padala.

      Every OFW has the same dilemna, Just think hindi lahat ng oras at panahon malakas ka, Be Wise in every dealings, especially your finances.
    • Terno  •  5 months ago
      nakakahiya mga ofw poro nalang utang sa karamihan dahil sa kabit. sa totoo lang walang kwenta iyang PDOS.
    • Alfredo porong De dios  •  9 months ago
      What are the possible business to put up in the Philippines after retirement @ abroad considering the high cost of overhead that they'll encountered like electricity, pwesto, water etc. E pagtrtrabaho mo nlang yung owner ng establishment. Internet cafe business is not already feasible considering the high cost of electricity and very LOW rent/hr. And high business permits.Vehicle business is not also feasible considering the high cost of fuel, spare parts and maintenance.
      • Bong 6 months ago
        Sir ako nag aalaga ng kambing, Ito ang mga business na konti lang ang gumagaya. Sa probinsya ako kaya pupwedi sa akin. Kahit papaano may additional income ka every year. Tumingin ka sa paligid mo kung ano pwedi mo inegosyo. di bale konti ang kita pero atleast may additional income na dumarating.
    • Lunie  •  6 months ago
      Poea's PDOS should stress on this instead of some bla bla bla...
    • bakbaku  •  Riyadh, Saudi Arabia  •  3 months ago
      huwag mangutang sa 5/6. huwag isangla ang sweldo pag nangungutang. hwag mangutang kung pambili lamang ng apple 4s. huwag mangutang at ipapadala lamang sa pinas kung hindi naman importante ang pagkakagatusan. balanseng gastos at kita sa tamang panahon para maiwasan mangutang. huwag mabulag sa mga makabagong materyal na bagay.
    • JIMMY G  •  9 months ago
      Isang nakakahinayang na panahon dito sa abroad ng mga OFW ay yung nakikipag-relasyon o yun tinatawag na "extended family". Sa ganitong sitwasyon, masabi nating ito yun mga taong hindi makapagpigil dahil sa pagkakalayo sa kanilang mga asawa, kayat nauuwi sa pakiki-apid sa mga may asawa narin dito. Minsan pati dalaga at batang-bata pang OFW ay malaman mo na kumabit na pala sa may asawang kalalakihan. Sa ganitong kalagayan ang isang OFW ay mababawasan na ang kanyang pinansyal na suporta sa tunay na pamilya, at dahil narin dito ay magkakagastos na sya ng mas higit pa sa dati nyang gastos lalu pat kung maanakan ng isang lalaking OFW ang kanyang kalaguyo o extended wife. Sayang ang panahon na maging ganito ang isang OFW, ito man ay babae o lalake. Ang ganitong pagsasama ay tatagal at hanggang ang isang OFW ay magkaidad narin dito, at hanggang sa matapos ang kontrata na halos ay walang ipon, may dalawa pang pamilyang susuportahan. Ang ganitong sitwasyon ay hindi naman natin pwedeng pakialaman o hatulan ang mga taong may ganitong pananaw, sa halip ito ay nagbibigay lamang sa atin ng aral na kung tatahakin natin ang tamang direksyon ng buhay, dapat maisip natin na hindi pagmatagalan ang pagtatrabaho sa ibang bansa, sa anumang paraan ay babalik at uuwi tayo sa sariling bayan, na hanggang sa ating kapanahunan ay wala paring katiyakan ang kabuhayan.
    • Carlopoji  •  9 months ago
      ang hirap magmahal, lahat gagawin mo dahil sa pagmamahal. mahirap din kung di ka marunong magmahal, ano pa saysay ng buhay mo kng di ka marunong magmahal.

      yan ang tunay na dahilan kung bakit umalis at nagtrabaho sa ibang bansa ang mga katulad kong OFW. dahil sa ating mga minamahal sa buhay. ang masaklap na katotohanan, di naiintindihan ng naiiwan sa pinas ang hirap na dinaranas natin dahil panay ginhawa na lang ang natatanggap nila, dahil na rin sa pgnanasa ng bawat OFW na iangat ang kabuhayan ng minamahal na pamilya.

      sana ay magkaroon ng kaliwanagan sa mga pamilya ng OFW na hindi madali ang sitwasyon ng mga katulad namin nagtrabaho dito sa ibang bansa. at sana ay matigil din ang kayabangan ng ibang OFW tuwing nakakauwi sa pinas, sobrang galante na tipo bang walang katapusan ang biyaya. hanggang maubos na ang pinaghirapan sa ilang araw na bakasyon sa pinas. inom dito, inom doon, pakain dito, pakain doon. pasalubong dito at kung kani-kanino, hindi naman sila sinalubong sa kanilang paguwi. hehehhe.

      sana ay matuto na tayong mga OFW. ang pinaghihirapan natin ay pr sa ating pamilya at di para sa barkada, at nagtrabaho tayo sa malayo sa layuning maiahon ang pamilya sa kahirapan ng permanente, hindi panandaliang ginhawa lamang. man----ayari lamang ito kng matututo tyong magtabi pr sa kinabukasan ng mga bata, at hindi pr sa uubusin kinabukasan. ok lang magsaya paminsan minsan, yung tama lang. paminsan minsan pero pangmatagalan, hindi pang minsan lang.
    • Larrah  •  Sydney, Australia  •  3 months ago
      Financial education should not only be given to OFW's and their families. It should be for everyone else.

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