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    S’porean women not open to dating shorter men: study

    While Singaporean men may be increasingly willing to date a taller woman, their female counterparts have grown more resistant to dating a shorter man, a recent study finds.

    An annual Regional Dating Survey showed that 70 per cent of Singaporean women polled would not date shorter men, up from last year’s finding of 61 per cent.

    In contrast, the percentage of local men saying they would date a taller woman rose from 38 to 42 per cent in this year’s survey.

    The survey, conducted this August by dating agency Lunch Actually, polled 1,895 people across Singapore, Hong Kong and Malaysia. Of this, 640 respondents were Singaporeans, with 78 per cent of them aged between 26 to 40 and 67 per cent hold at least a Bachelor’s degree.

    In Hong Kong and Malaysia, 60 per cent and 70 per cent of female respondents, respectively, said no to a relationship with a shorter man. While more than half of male respondents in Malaysia said they would date a taller woman, only one in three men in Hong Kong said yes to a taller date.

    Locally, the survey also found that nearly half of female respondents were not open to dating men with a lower income, but 76 per cent of local men would date a woman who earns more than him. Four in 10 women would not date men who are less educated but 8 in 10 men were receptive to a woman with higher qualifications.

    Violet Lim, chief executive officer and co-founder of Lunch Actually said, “It could be possible that men are feeling more secure about themselves that they need not worry about factors such as a women being taller, more qualified or earning more than them.”

    “Men are quite practical, they do not view height as a deciding factor in the relationship,” she added.

    “But I think for women, they seem hard-wired to prefer taller, well-built men since traditionally they made better hunters and providers.”

    32-year-old administrative executive Yvonne Chan said she would not date a shorter man. “I wouldn’t because deep down, I subscribe to old school romance where the man is the protector. That, rightly or wrongly, is perceived through height and build,” she told Yahoo! Singapore.

    “So, unless he is a martial arts expert, I probably wouldn't be attracted to a shorter man in the first place,” she added.

    Local women not into good looks

    If you think, however, that our local women are attracted to good looks, you might be surprised to find that looks take a back seat to other attributes such as confidence, strong character, good conversation and humour.

    Men, on the other hand, were more interested in pretty women with 34.3 per cent saying it is a feature they would be most attracted to. They are also drawn to confident women and those who are gentle and non-aggressive.

    When it comes to paying for first dates, most of the male and female respondents agreed men should foot the bill.

    The survey also showed more Singaporeans using online dating as a way to meet potential dates with the number rising from 58 per cent last year to 61.7 per cent.

    This growing trend is inevitable, with Singaporeans, especially the younger generation, being more internet-savvy, said Lim. “Online dating is 24/7. It’s easy to go online to check out potential partners and it merely serves as an additional platform to widen their social contacts,” she said.

    “But singles should also be aware of pitfalls of online dating such as dating scams and syndicates. Dating agencies should also put in more mechanisms to put a stop to daters who are not genuine people,” she cautioned.

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    347 comments

    • Alfredo  •  6 months ago
      Who d *uck cares about Singapore women? they got yellow teeth, hair in armpits, *#unts like hairy swollen oyster.
      • truth 6 months ago
        those are likely ladies from china. most local ladies shave their underarms
    • msampa  •  6 months ago
      Lol, Nonsense...!!!
      Majority of the Singaporean women would not go for guys who are poor, who have no career, no education qualification.
      As long as any of these three criterias describe a guy, more or less destined to be single forever or someone who would be buying a foreign bride.
      Looks and height are not important to them at all.
      One of my friends, a very fat doctor in his 30s, married with two kids is still able to get laid by different girls in their early 20s. Two different girls every month is like a norm to him.
      And these girls are ordinary people like patients, nurses or some random girl met in the restaurant or bar.
      Just an example to show how screwed up this world has become and how money speaks louder and how materialistic people has become nowadays.
      No money, no talk...
      • alex 6 months ago
        True...NO MONEY NO HONEY...this is the universal rule!
      • TIM 6 months ago
        the fat doc probably is a very nice guy (at least can pretend to be) and funny and generous....if a fat guy acts like he is Adonis...he will not get anyone...

        BTW for a guy to have no career, poor and no education..he is quite jialat...I know many disadvantaged workers but they are hard working and can work up to a decent career, even if they started out as a 'lowly' cleaner or labour man...
      • Cho 6 months ago
        One of the marital woes is financial difficulties. Money becomes a form of security. Before marriage, both eyes must be open. After marriage, close one eye. Riches, good health and good look does not last in a relationship. Geniune love conquers all,
    • Tan  •  6 months ago
      Nonsense! Singapore woman will not date poor man.
      • ersanba 6 months ago
        Dude... This dont happen to JUST singapore women.. it happen to women of other nationalities as well....
      • AlisonH 6 months ago
        please define poor ?
      • LG503 6 months ago
        Poor may mean low income, low saving, not affording a HDB unit, job with low or no prospect.
    • Toniooh!  •  6 months ago
      Title not complete. It should be: Sg women not open to dating men who are short... of cash.
      • Taurus 6 months ago
        you think this applies to SG women only??? come on. wake up!
    • Michael  •  6 months ago
      so low income short guys in singapore all nobody wants??
      • Be Rational 6 months ago
        shorter women with lower expectations ^^
      • ecigSG 6 months ago
        Teng siow peng , prove this logic wrong....
      • AlisonH 6 months ago
        as long you can feed your family when your partner is out of work...then no problem...I believe Singapore gal should have those PRC gal gal thinking!! Man should be the sole breadwinner and must able to effort a house..then everything would be OK!
    • 小 Lee 飛刀  •  6 months ago
      Women want their mate both income and height are above them, because people like to compare one thing with another. No one want to lose face in comparsion with their sister and friends mate. Same apply to men, wanted a pretty, good figure women, not to be embarass in front of their friends. People are often neglect the moral character of their companion.
    • clement chua  •  6 months ago
      who's the one perpetuating gender stereotypes now! women want men to earn more than them, yet they want equal wages as men? hahaha
    • Shine  •  6 months ago
      I believe the female respondents to the survey have not been fully honest. If a man is short but has a mountain of money, these same women who claimed they would not date shorter men will be hounding him! They would not take a second look at a tall guy who is not well off financially...............
    • Ariel  •  6 months ago
      Guys... if you have a daughter... or you already have one... would you allow her to marry some one poor, no education, no career?
    • Lenny  •  6 months ago
      Who cares about the physical height of a man. The most concern about is the income of that man. He may be SHORT in height, but his earning is TALL.
    • 周先生  •  6 months ago
      Why doesn't anyone dare to use the magic word? "MONEY". Senseless denial....
    • Ng  •  6 months ago
      Talk cock, look at our older ministers those in 50s and 60s they are not tall but married with children,have grandchildren and from generation till now...and many these famous man contribute singapore society they're are not tall too..thanks.
    • Ira  •  6 months ago
      My hubby's a head shorter than me. We're happily married since Dec 1996 n hv 3 kids Our kids are very confident and hv good sense. When we as adult hv no hang-ups abt looks and view a person thru their heart and respect individuality we pass these qualities to our children. When a person lacks confidence they need to have an arm candy to boost their image.
    • Madman  •  6 months ago
      My friend is 1.63 but date lots of taller beautiful women and have lots of women fighting over him. He has a rich daddy, drives a sports car and lives in a big landed property. This research is either bogus or women don't answer honestly (may be unintentional) in a survey.
    • shiva  •  6 months ago
      No Tall ,No looks. Women looks money and security only.
    • CSM Fan  •  6 months ago
      who cares about looks or height nowadays. its so obvious that the ladies nowadays go for men who look like yusoff ishak!
    • desmond  •  6 months ago
      Bull shit... Singapore Girls sucks!!!! I am a bit fat and got rejected by few girls cos they said they like slim guys......
    • 周先生  •  6 months ago
      I'm very tall. I want a women to be busty and horny. Not busty nevermind, then must be hornier. Why not they do a survey on men? It's more fun. She needs to be intelligent enough to hold a conversation, say... one blowtask for every 100 words she speaks would be the perfect balance of talk please ratio. If she cooks, I change light bulbs. If she cleans, I fix the car. If she nags, it has to be limited to one blowtask every 5 nags. I am a very fair man : )
    • JSL  •  6 months ago
      tall woman can dominate me anytime....i like tall woman..
    • zinc  •  6 months ago
      "confidence, strong character" , cash, condo,club membership,car,credit card

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