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    S'pore girl dies after long battle with cancer

    Six-year-old Singaporean girl Charmaine Lim has lost her battle with cancer.

    The girl, who had been battling advanced neuroblastoma, died last Friday. Charmaine rose to national attention after her case was reported in The New Paper in 2009 and funds and well-wishes started pouring in.

    Although initially appearing relieved that her daughter did not have to suffer any longer, Charmaine's mother, Cynthia Lim, admitted on her blog on Saturday that reality is slowly setting in.

    "'Ma ma misses you so much... So much today... I can't stop crying... I think the reality is slowly hitting me..." wrote Lim.

    Charmaine was diagnosed with neuroblastoma, a common type of extracranial cancer in infancy, when she was just four years old.

    On 13 February 2009, Lim brought her daughter to the hospital for a check after she discovered Charmaine's right rib cage protruding slightly higher than her left, and thought something may be amiss.

    To her horror, the result of the scan made Charmaine an urgent case for doctors, and that she was seriously ill.

    Throughout the ordeal, Lim clung on tightly to her faith that Charmaine would get better. Together with Charmaine's godmother, she set up a blog to inform their friends and family of Charmaine's condition, and their need to gather funds to help in her cancer treatment.

    The blog became very popular over the Internet, drawing in people who did not know Charmaine to send their words of encouragement and to offer donations.

    The night before Charmaine let go of her pain, Lim wrote in a blog post, asking for the heavens to have mercy on her daughter.

    "Heavens, please have mercy on my child. Please. I don't want her to suffer anymore... Free her and let her be the happy girl she has always been..."

    And hours after that post, Charmaine finally gave up the fight.

    After Charmaine's passing, many people have left kind messages on her Facebook group, which has almost 9,000 members.

    "Charmaine has motivated and touched many people's hearts including ours. You will always be loved. Dear Cyn, the road to healing will not be easy but please hang on and do not give up! We will be rooting for you!" said Elaine Chua.

    Another member of the group, Tay York Koon added, "Dear Char, you don't know who I am. But you have touched my heart. I believe you are happily watching us from above. Watch after your great mummy and brother. Fly high. Fly freely. You will be missed."

    Charmaine's funeral will be on Sunday after a three-day wake, where it was a celebration of her life, and strong will to live.

    "It is a celebration of Charmaine's life. Do come dressed in her favourite colors -- yellow, pink or green or anything rainbow," wrote Lim on the blog.

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    121 comments

    • Ancient  •  4 months ago
      RIP.....looking at a different point of view...its better....at least she's not suffering anymore...she's free of that burden.........
    • voice  •  4 months ago
      There's no more pain or suffering for her. She's now in the loving arms of her Lord.
    • buck  •  4 months ago
      nothing hurt more to a parent who has a kid of the same age as yours. deepest condolence.
    • Holy Toledo  •  4 months ago
      Sayang...... Nothing is permanent..... Amituofo.
    • Tan  •  4 months ago
      She will move on to a better place.On the bright side,she hav left the pain and misery of the cancer.Life is short,treasure the times with ur loved ones.
    • ho  •  4 months ago
      sleep in peace Charmaine. Buddha will bring u to heaven and u r free from all agony.
    • cLeo  •  4 months ago
      Cynthia, the loss of your darling Charmaine is extremely painful.
      Five years ago,, I too lost my darling daughter to Lymphoma.
      Be strong, your angel will be looked after by the Lord.
      Will pray for her and your family as well. Deepest condolences.
    • Serene  •  4 months ago
      Rest in peace, Charmarine. God bless you and your family.
    • Drea  •  4 months ago
      Hopefully the empathy and well wishes will not end with this precious little girl and that people will in turn offer the same kind of support and love to the countless other children and families who are going through the same thing.
    • Carlo Palma  •  4 months ago
      The kingdom of heaven belongs to the children. Matthew 9:14
    • benjamin han  •  4 months ago
      Dear Charmaine, you are a fighter. rest in peace and bless your family.....
    • mexicanheat  •  4 months ago
      Rest In Peace..Little Angel.
    • Tan  •  4 months ago
      Believe little Charmaine will not want to leave her mom and bro, who will think the same, even though she might be suffering with pains as she has a great mom and bro who were always beside her and support her so WELL.
      We will feel happy and enoy the quality time with our family members, even though there are hard time. This is my feeling towatds my late mom who will like all her kids to stay happy. Treasure the time we have with ours family and have no regret.
      Cynthia Lim, stay strong and take good care of your son and stay happy so that little Charmaine will able to feel both your happiness.
    • m  •  4 months ago
      RIP little girl. Condolence to the family, please be strong.
    • Judah  •  4 months ago
      Rest in peace my child, eternal peace in the abode of God.
      My condolences to the family and all in grief. Mourners Kadish .
    • garu  •  4 months ago
      may you rest in peace little charmaine.. thank you for the joy and uplifting you brought to everyone.
    • S  •  4 months ago
      Rest in Peace little Charmaine.
    • TSK  •  4 months ago
      Dear Cythnia,

      I can empathise with you as I just lost my husband to Cancer of Pancreas 2 months ago. 2 months have passed by and I still missed him ............... Just as I am penning this note tears well up in my eyes. One consolation , they are in Heaven free and healed! Do cry out it is fine and it helps.

      God Bless you !
    • Michael  •  4 months ago
      RIP, Charmaine!
    • Toniooh!  •  4 months ago
      Her family has a new guardian angel in their midst.