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    Teacher pleads guilty to affair with 14-year-old student

    A 41-year-old male teacher has admitted to the district court on Friday that he had a sexual relationship with his female student, who was just 14 years old when their affair began.
     
    According to TODAY, the former secondary school teacher who was 38 when he seduced his student, was the teacher-in-charge for the Robotics club which the girl joined in 2006.
     
    The married father - who has since been sacked by the Education Ministry - had asked the girl to be his girlfriend, showering her with presents during school trips together to South Korea, reported the paper.
     
    The pair then had sex for the first time in the school's co-curricular activity room. Over a two-year duration, they had sex on more than 15 occasions.
     
    The district court also heard that he did not use a condom in most of these trysts.
     
    Deputy public prosecutor Kavita Uthrapathy, who sought a jail term of between seven and 10 years, said that "it was entirely fortuitous that the girl did not get pregnant".
     
    TODAY also said that the man's wife only found out about the illicit relationship in January last year, when she saw text exchanges between her husband and the teenager.
     
    The ex-teacher, who also headed the design and technology department of the school - will be sentenced on 17 Jan. If convicted, he could be jailed up to 10 years, fined or both.
     
    Speaking to Yahoo! Singapore, psychologist Daniel Koh said there could be many reasons behind the man's actions.
     
    "Sometimes it is a case of compensation and replacement- they want to get what they cannot get in their current relationship. They are tired of routine and want to seek something more thrilling and fresh.
     
    "Sometimes, it could be due to power and control- the fulfillment gained from manipulating a younger person. It could also be proximity and time spent together," said Koh.
     
    Meanwhile, parents of teenaged daughters such as Madam Kim Leow told Yahoo! Singapore that punishment must be harsh to serve as a deterrent.
     
    Said the housewife with a 18-year-old daughter: "This is very alarming. You are talking about a person who is a trusted figure of authority, a very young girl, and the affair happened in school. This man cannot be let off easily.
     
    "This is also a reminder to teachers, parents- to observe their students or children for tell-tale signs before something as serious as this happens."

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    • Suzanne  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      Jia liat. Have sex with a minor. Sure kenna caning.
      • HangLoose 5 months ago
        Not only canning, inside there sure kena suck rottan....arse kena, mouth also kena, come out only can work in Changi beach.
    • noseynose  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      it is brave of the wife to expose the affair...many will not !
      • Grace 5 months ago
        to my understanding the woman is not in love with husband for exposin this issues
      • GWR 5 months ago
        May be the wife already thinking to divorce him? And this is the perfect chance and timing??
      • Jack 5 months ago
        1 more broken family
    • Wendy  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      I hope he get 10 years jail term.. I pity the wife though.. ;(
      • tan 5 months ago
        ....and their child/children.
      • A Yahoo! User 5 months ago
        dun always blame the guy, the wife ahs to be blamed also for not satisfying the husband ! typical local women attitude !
      • Cleo 5 months ago
        why blamed the wife? if she cannot satisfied him , he can always look for prostitutes why vent his frustration on a young innocent girl whose age could be that of his daughter?
    • Joker  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      Straits Times reported he had affairs with 2 students, 1 minor and 1 senior (above 16 yr old, no charge). This guy is a 2-timer. sorry 3 Timer, may be x timer.
      He may hold VIP membership-card to Brothels.
    • Ab  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      Teenagers having sex is already very common in our schools. The only difference is that in this case it's comitted by a figure of authority. How about sex between teenagers that are both underaged. It is not any less serious to me. In fact it is more serious than needs more immediate attention as it is so common. How often does a teacher have sex with a student! it's just one case only. Events that are more frequent should be more urgently paid attention to. When teenagers have sex and the gal gets pregnant, is the young chap going to have the ability to support a family when he is not even 16 yet.
      • Daniel 5 months ago
        theres a difference between pedophilism and underage sex. both are as bad but having a man abuse his authorities is way worse. imagine her parents. their daughter had sex with a man they entrusted their child with 6-8 hours a day, 5 days a week. its not just the sex issue but the betrayal issue too.
      • A Yahoo! User 5 months ago
        agree, but then they shouldnt even hv did it in the first plc. in many religions its a huge sin to make premarital love. to make it short, ppl are becoming more apostate by the second and sth much more effective has to be done.
      • Juana Chan 5 months ago
        But if is a "Yes" from the girl, both are in fault.
    • Suzanne  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      Hey becareful of swimming instructors for primary and secondary school kids. I heard a lot of molestation cases happening there. Especially primary school kids.
    • .  •  5 months ago
      Was he giving private tuition or tuitioning his privates?
    • pelaihari  •  5 months ago
      This is just the tip of the iceberg case that was reported. There’re many more sexual abuse cases still going on and remain in the dark.
    • sts  •  5 months ago
      This case, regardless with or without consent of the girl; is considered STATUTORY RAPE punishable with a jail sentence and caning. More so since the teacher is a male above 18 years old and below 50 years old which age range does not exempt caning as part of the punishment.
      I don't see how the sentence can be any more lenient than the minimum already in place.
    • Wafu  •  5 months ago
      This lewdness wreaks dishonor to the teachers. It's very unfortunate for the future generations, hence we cannot anymore entrust to them our youngsters. Lascivious teachers is not worthy to be a mentor.
    • wwe  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      Few years ago , a FEMALE teacher committed the same act as this case, she was sack of course but the jail term was not as the one describe here and AWARE kept quiet about this

      I see double standards here , and why AWARE did not fight for the same sentence which happened for the female teacher to be carried out for this case?

      but dun get me wrong here, this man should be punished I am not siding this man), but the sentence to be carried out is diff , and that is the point I am trying to emphasize
    • Angelene  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      Publish the teacher's face on the front News' page and put him to shame across the world....inorder to stop such nonsense to others.
    • Tan  •  5 months ago
      The school should take 50% responsibility...for it's lack of supervison . Already issue warning yet still such things happens. Total failure.
    • raymond  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      There should not be any teaching job for him while serving prison terms. He should be given the the toughest job and should be given the maximum sentence and rotan for preying on a minor to set a precedent for future cases of this nature as so many cases of this nature had happened before and was now still happening.
    • Rajasundram  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      The girl is underaged - it is the teacher who should have exercised restraint - instead he took advantage of his position - therefore the maximum punishment should be given
    • Dawn  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      Why is this report not stating the Teacher's reason for having sex with the student? Why is this report not stating what the student's reason for agreeing having sex with the teacher? No doubt the teacher is wrong in having sex with the student. But is it true that the teacher seduced the student into having sex and not the student itself? Students nowadays are not as innocent as they are. No matter what the teacher is wrong and must be punished but what I am trying to say is that the student is at fault too. It takes 2 to clap hands not just 1 to have sex. Stop condemning teachers in every single mistake, does the public knows that every single time a case like this happens, teachers from ALL schools have to go through a serious and long hours of CONTACT TIME (MEETING) at school discussing about this case? Does the public knows how hard teachers work at school? Teachers are suffering from depression and extreme stress, and many teachers end up in divorce and some in mental hospitals in Singapore due to the terrible workload at school. What does this reported means by saying " They are tired of routine and want to seek something more thrilling and fresh". Why is it that the public cannot be more forgiving? Don't the school has responsibility here in installing cameras in school to monitor the school's situation? Doesn't the school have proper preventive measures? All schools have a book where teachers sign in and sign out for the keys to the special rooms like CCA rooms. The school personnel like the office manager has to check periodically that the keys are properly checked in and checked out.
    • RoadToHeaven  •  5 months ago
      YUCK! How can a teacher do this? He shamed the novelty of the prestigious occupation.
    • zinc  •  Manila, Philippines  •  5 months ago
      Isn't it statutory rape? Coupling with a minor.....death penalty,
    • g  •  Singapore, Central Singapore  •  5 months ago
      After studying so much, his ass is still in his brains. Statuory Rape! Canning must not be spared. How a role model do such thing. Not the first time TEACHERS are involved. Must send the right signal.
    • Joker  •  5 months ago
      Why the CCA Room no CCTV? Why Orchid Club never check the IDs of the couple? One 38 and one 13 of different surname/family? Orchid Club has become Hotel 81?

      CCTVs should be installed at all rooms in schools.