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My wife and I have been married for 11 years.
But I still can’t get over her sexual past.
Before me she had sex with 12 men. Among those, two or three were one night stands.
When I ask her about those one night stands, she always tells me that she can’t remember. I find that hard to believe.
I love her but I am haunted by the thought of her being with those other men.
Am I being unreasonable? Please help me get over this.
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