Easy ways to teach children about diversity

Marcus Goh
Contributor

By Marcus Goh and Adrian Kuek

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Globalisation is a favourite buzzword for many these days, but it’s not just some corporate jargon made up to impress CEOs. As barriers between countries shrink, populations become more and more diverse. That means that, from young, children must learn to accept and understand those from different backgrounds and cultures to create a harmonious society (as our pledge goes).

This advice holds true across all demographics — as long as we’re willing to keep an open mind.

It’s a diverse world out there. (Photo: Pixabay)

1. Don’t stereotype other cultures

It’s tempting to stereotype particular demographics, or to attribute negative experiences to factors such as race, nationality or religion. When parents are exasperated with a particular situation and faced with children’s constant questioning, it’s easy to explain it all away with a broad generalisation.

This is a difficult truth to accept, and seldom discussed publicly. But this sets a poor precedent for children, who learn from example. Without any life experience to fall back on, these incidents of stereotyping become their life experience – showing them that diversity is something to be feared, rather than celebrated.

It may take a while, but take the time to explain the differences between cultures to children when they ask. It’s not so much the information, but the approach that they will learn. And the approach to diversity is what matters in this case.

Encourage curiosity. (Photo: Pixabay)

2. Let children ask questions about other cultures

Of course, knowledge and awareness of other cultures will also help children to better understand and embrace diversity. If parents are worried that children might find this boring, think about how they look at Greek and Roman mythology. Children are often fascinated by such myths and legends, and will take the effort to learn more and read about them. They are, in effect, studying another culture when they read about it.

The key is to take this sort of fascination and wonder, and apply it in their approach to other cultures. Let them ask questions, do some research, and learn more about other cultures. It’s not rude to ask someone from another culture about their customs and traditions, as long as it’s done in a respectful way. In fact, it shows a healthy curiosity for others.

So when children show interest in other cultures, help fan the flames of curiosity. They’ll also discover how to be self-directed learners when they take this approach.

Lend a helping hand to those in need. (Photo: Pixabay)

3. Diversity can extend beyond culture

Culture is the most obvious form of diversity, but there are other demographics, too. Diversity includes income levels, gender inclinations, and even personal belief systems. At its heart, it means that children understand and accept people who are different from them. This differentiation can be something as simple as a person who loathes all things hallyu versus a K-pop fan. It may seem insignificant, but children draw their cues from how adults respond to small differences.

So remember that every time we dismiss small differences, it leaves an impact on a child. By treating small differences with respect, children will follow suit when it comes to the big differences they encounter in their lives.

Understand those with disabilities. (Photo: Pixabay)

4. Showing empathy for those with social, physical, or mental disabilities

Ultimately, this also leads to acceptance of those with disabilities. It’s a logical extrapolation of the diversity issue – and an important one, too. When children embrace diversity and cherish the differences between people, they’ll also understand that certain groups need help. With that mindset, it’s easier for them to show kindness and compassion for the disabled.

Again, it’s an uncomfortable reality that adults may secretly make fun of disabilities to their children. But by actively refraining from such attitudes and taking a more welcoming stance to the handicapped, parents can subtly gear children towards becoming empathetic, productive members of society.

(Photo: Pixabay)

What do you think about teaching diversity to children?

Adrian Kuek runs Joyous Learning, an enrichment centre that specialises in English, Mathematics, Science and Creative Writing for Primary. He previously served as the academic director of one of Singapore’s largest enrichment centre chains for over seven years.

Marcus Goh runs Write-Handed, a creative writing studio. At the same time, he teaches Secondary English at The Write Connection. He has been a specialist tutor for English and Literature (Secondary) since 2005.