Sam Smith reveals they have ‘always’ been non-binary
Sam Smith has revealed that they have “always” identified as non-binary.
Speaking to The Sunday Times Style in a new interview, the singer explained how body dysmorphia helped them come to terms with their gender.
“Yes, I have always been non-binary," Smith said.
"I have always felt the way I’ve felt, and just hearing other non-binary stories made me suddenly feel seen.
"This is a way that I can live, where if I tell people this is how I feel and this is how I like to be treated, life is easier.”
Smith, who came out as non-binary in 2019, went to explain how they have experienced issues with their body image in recent years.
“For me, what triggered everything was the work I was doing with my body issues," they said.
“I always had body dysmorphia. As I started to address that, I started to address my gender and realised that I was holding myself to these ideals of how a man should look.”
Smith added that after undergoing therapy, they realised “there was more" to their body image issues than they anticipated.
"I have girl’s thighs and I have girl breasts too, they said.
"It started to awaken this conversation that had always been in the back of my mind.”
Smith added how they have a much more positive relationship with their body now.
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“In the words of Rihanna, I have been gifted with a fluctuating body," Smith said, referencing the ‘Umbrella’ singer’s quote from 2017.
Three years ago Rihanna told The Cut: “I actually have had the pleasure of a fluctuating body type, where one day I can literally fit into something that is bodycon, and then the next day - the next week - I need something oversized.”
Smith continued: "I can lose weight, I can put weight on quickly, I am a shape-shifter. When I read Rihanna I felt very seen.”
Smith came out as non-binary in an interview in 2019 with Jameela Jamil for her I Weigh platform, which champions body inclusivity.
"I've always had a little bit of a war going within my body and my mind," Smith said.
"I do think like a woman sometimes, in my head. Sometimes I've questioned 'Do I want a sex change?'
"It's something I still think about, like, 'Do I want to?'"
The singer-songwriter then shared their decision on Twitter, writing: “Today is a good day so here goes. I’ve decided I am changing my pronouns to THEY/THEM.
“After a lifetime of being at war with my gender I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out…”
In subsequent tweets, the 27-year-old said they are “so excited and privileged” to be surrounded by people who support their decision.
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