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    Steve Jobs’ unusual meeting with his father


    In an interview with "60 Minutes" on Sunday evening, Steve Jobs' biographer Walter Isaacson revealed that the Apple founder actually did meet his biological father face-to-face once--even though neither man realized it at the time.

    The intensely private Jobs sought out his biological mother and sister in the mid 1980s, saying that he felt something was missing from his life. He became very close with his biological sister, the novelist Mona Simpson. But he decided he didn't want to meet his father, Abdulfattah Jandali, who had left his mother when Mona was still young. (The couple gave Jobs up for adoption when they were both in graduate school.)

    "I learned a little bit about him, and I didn't like what I learned," Jobs says in new audio recordings released by Isaacson. "I asked her to not tell him that we'd ever met and not tell him anything about me."

    But it turns out they had already met, even though neither man realized it. When Mona Simpson tracked down Jandali, he told her about a restaurant he used to manage in Silicon Valley that was very popular. "Everybody used to come there, even Steve Jobs used to come there," he told her.  "He was a great tipper." Simpson was shocked, but didn't reveal that Jobs was Jandali's son.

    "I remember meeting the owner who was from Syria, and it was most certainly him, and I shook his hand and he shook my hand and that's all," Jobs told Isaacson.

    Jandali, now 80, said he sent Jobs' birthday emails after he found out he was his father, and claims that one time he received a response that just said "Thank you."

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    • SAVE THE WORLD  •  Chicago, United States  •  7 months ago
      Any Idiot can produce a child. It takes a real man to be a father.
      • timofte 7 months ago
        indeed...
      • gypsy 7 months ago
        like jobs was an idiot when he gave up Lisa???
      • night_crawler 7 months ago
        Gene and DNA plays a big role at birth shaping a person.
    • Masahiro  •  Concord, United States  •  7 months ago
      its kind of funny because Jobs disowned his own daughter when he had a child when he was about 22- kind of brings up the nature vs nurture debate
      • spidey_man 7 months ago
        Another interesting fact; the Apple Lisa was named after her. He was a complex man, who fought his demons like we all do.
      • at 7 months ago
        father's genes!
      • Use your common sense! 7 months ago
        Maybe he doubted that he would be a good father, based on his own and the emotional problems he probably knew he had. Don't judge someone until you have been where they have been.
    • xanadu  •  Dallas, United States  •  7 months ago
      Jobs was a visionary, but - at least some of the time - he could apparently be a major jerk. In other words, he had good points and bad points - just like the rest of us.
      • Wood Y 7 months ago
        uhh, no. He had MOSTLY bad points. Pretty much, in nearly any realm he was involved in, OTHER than making lots of money, he sounds like he was a crummy human being.
      • JC 7 months ago
        you guys god jerk and crummy human from this article? I don't want to meet my real fater either and don't think that makes me a jer and crummy human. He "was a good tipper"!
      • Corey 7 months ago
        I agree with Jobs, that was not his father, your father is the man who raises you and loves you!
    • Comfy  •  Austin, United States  •  7 months ago
      What can I say...........only that we as human beings when young make lots of mistakes that affect us throughout our entires lives. None of us are perfect. I'm sorry for Mr. Jobs and his father. They both lost.
      • Miami Dolphins 7 months ago
        No his father lost not Steve.
      • Anthony 7 months ago
        Very well said. Life is a challenge, an adventure, a long medley of opportunities and difficulties. The important thing is whether or not we learn and grow from our experiences. Nothing and no one is ever lost. (Not that I think most commentators here on Yahoo will understand that...)
      • REBECCA C 7 months ago
        That man is not his father, the man who raised him up is.
    • ZipLine33  •  7 months ago
      How come S.Jobs never addresses the fact that he also abandoned his first child? He should have talked about how he felt when he realized that he was like his own biological father ...
      • Randall 7 months ago
        really?
      • Nena 7 months ago
        Oh brother, get over it. He ultimately acknowledged his daughter, and after DNA tests were conducted. If I were a man, and a woman who I do not have a formal relationship claims she's pregnant with my child,I would also not recognize anything unless I have DNA proof. But....I"m not the type to be procreating out of wedlock.
      • SonnyOne 7 months ago
        He didn't procreate out of wedlock. This is his eldest daughter, before he got married. If you watch 60mins, after 10 years he found her and brought her and brought her into his home. It was important to him to rebuild the relationship, which he did.
    • vision of choice  •  Oakland, United States  •  7 months ago
      biological donor.. not his father. his father is paul job who raise, support, and taught steve.
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    • REBECCA C  •  7 months ago
      Not all adoptive children feel the need to SEEK out their biological parents. I am adopted and I was obviously put up for adoption for a reason. My parents (the ones who raised me) CHOSE me and they are my Real Partent not the ones who conceived me. I was given a second chance when I was adopted. I always new I was adopted. My mom always told me I was special and that they chose me and wanted me.

      The only thing I want to know about the biologicals is their medical history, I have no use for them otherwise.
    • SUNSHINE  •  Joliet, United States  •  7 months ago
      The man has passed... let it be
    • A Yahoo! User  •  7 months ago
      He hating what his father had done, his father he became. He realized this much too late, yet did not realize enough.
    • Illya Nickovetch Kuryakin  •  7 months ago
      He died give it a rest and let it go. He was what he was nothing more nothing less.
    • Tyrone F  •  7 months ago
      As D.L. Hughley once said, abandoning a child can turn out to be like throwing away a winning lottery ticket
    • Beverly  •  Westby, United States  •  7 months ago
      The man is dead give it a rest. Boy I hate this pop up.Yahoo please get rid of it.
    • CORavensFan  •  7 months ago
      This man kept his private life private while he was alive - why publish all of this now that he's dead and can't defend himself? The media are sharks and cowards.
    • reefers the clown  •  Gainesville, United States  •  7 months ago
      and on second thought, steve did the same thing to his first daughter. also very sad for her to be denied your whole life
    • spectator  •  7 months ago
      That he was a technology genius is beyond debate, but like you R, I had a problem with how he dealt with some personal things for eg. the circumstances of his first child.
    • R  •  7 months ago
      I saw last nights 60 minutes. Couldn't believe what he did to his oldest friend, the one that was with him college and they even went to India together.
      Turns out that the late great Steve Jobs, was indeed an A hole in his personal life!
    • Brix  •  7 months ago
      Any Idiot can produce a child. It takes a real man to be a father.
    • Dude  •  7 months ago
      I feel as if this man had very few moments of happiness...
    • SHANNONS  •  7 months ago
      He denied is daughter until it was proven that he could father children even though he had submitted false documents to the court that he was sterile just to get out of paying child support!!!! Dont make this guy a saint or say he did that because he was scared of what kind of father he was going to be, afterall he didnt have a problem fathering 2 sons w/ his wife and raising them from the beginning. The only reason the daughter got to go to Harvard is because he was so far behind on child support after fighting paternity for so long that he had to pay!!!!

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