'Perfect Match' star Harry Jowsey on why he said no to Season 1, his player reputation

Spoiler alert: This story includes details from the first six episodes of Netflix's "Perfect Match," now streaming.

LOS ANGELES − Netflix's "Perfect Match" is back with a new season to stir up romance − but mostly drama − among "the Netflix 'Avengers' of reality TV."

Those are the words of one of Season 2's stars, reality TV veteran Harry Jowsey. The all-star cast comprises alumni from across the Netflix reality universe, including "Love is Blind," "Too Hot To Handle," "Dated & Related" and "The Circle."

The contestants, now pros from their time on other Netflix shows, compete in challenges that supposedly test their compatibility. As on Peacock's "Love Island," they must be coupled up by the end of each day (which means sharing a bed in a resort room) to stay on the show.

Jessica Vestal, Harry Jowsey, Tolú Ekundare and Chris Hahn are seen on Season 2, Episode 6, of Netflix's "Perfect Match."
Jessica Vestal, Harry Jowsey, Tolú Ekundare and Chris Hahn are seen on Season 2, Episode 6, of Netflix's "Perfect Match."

"We are a little more seasoned to it; we know what to do and how to handle ourselves as best as possible," says Stevan Ditter ("Too Hot To Handle" Season 3). Looking askance at his friend Harry, he adds: "Some of us."

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The cast of "Perfect Match" Season 2 .
The cast of "Perfect Match" Season 2 .

Harry, 27 − who broke out in the inaugural season of "Too Hot To Handle" and carved out a media career by competing on shows like ABC's "Dancing with the Stars" and hosting a podcast − has also built a certain reputation. Since his "Too Hot" debut in 2020, the Australian star has made tabloid headlines with his dating life and a reportedly successful OnlyFans page.

On the show, Harry proudly acknowledges he and Stevan have slept with “pretty much everybody who’s been on a Netflix reality show." In spite of this, he insists several times on "Perfect Match" that he's dating to marry.

"I think, for a while, I was kind of avoiding dating shows, and I said no to the first season (of 'Perfect Match'). I was like, 'I've just got to work on myself and continue to grow'," he tells USA TODAY. "But this time around, I was going through a bad breakup. I just got off 13 months sober. I was in a bad place, mentally. And I was like, 'I think I just need to do something different.'"

Elys Hutchinson and Harry Jowsey are seen on Season 2, Episode 1, of Netflix's "Perfect Match."
Elys Hutchinson and Harry Jowsey are seen on Season 2, Episode 1, of Netflix's "Perfect Match."

In "Perfect Match," a recurring theme is Harry's extensive dating history (several of his exes appeared on Season 1) and how he deals with women who are cautious of wading into a romance with him. After filming for several weeks at a resort in Tulum, Mexico, do his fellow castmates still stand by these reservations?

"I’d say so. I mean, people talk; the industry talks," says Xanthi Perdikomatis ("The Circle" Season 5). "We're a Netflix reality universe. So we all talk. I think it was pretty valid for people to have their qualms."

Kaz Bishop ("Dated & Related" Season 1) agrees “100%” that women were right to be wary of getting involved with Harry.

Jessica Vestal comforts Harry Jowsey Season 2, Episode 5, of Netflix's "Perfect Match."
Jessica Vestal comforts Harry Jowsey Season 2, Episode 5, of Netflix's "Perfect Match."

Stevan has a kinder perspective: "I think they might have been wary, but also I think he had a lot of appeal, to be honest with you. Every girl that was wary still ended up making a move.

"Someone thinks they can change him every time."

Nonetheless, Harry has no problem finding romantic prospects thanks to his sense of humor and charm. He wins over fellow "Too Hot To Handle" alum Ꭼlys Hutchinson (Season 5), then loses some goodwill when, several episodes in, he redirects his efforts toward "Love is Blind" Season 6 breakout star Jess Vestal.

He struggles, however, when it seems the preconceived notions about him might get in the way of his pursuits. In Episode 5, an upset Harry goes off by himself to cry on a sofa. “I think Jessica is the perfect match for me,“ he says. "But for some reason, people want to talk poorly about me."

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The contestants engage in sexually suggestive challenges and get to know one another on a romantic level, but there's no shortage of underhanded tactics and strategy involved on "Perfect Match."

This is most apparent when the winners of a challenge head to the "boardroom" to send two of their fellow cast members on dates with other Netflix alumni who are waiting in the wings. If they find a better connection over the course of a day, the original cast member's match has to scramble to reteam or risk going home.

"The two shows I came from,' 'Love Is Blind' and then 'Perfect Match,' I feel like are two completely opposite shows," Jess says. "Coming off 'Love Is Blind' a couple of months before, (I) was still in the love-and-marriage mindset. And I completely forgot that 'Perfect Match' had an element of strategy to it."

Her match Harry (through Episode 6, at least) says, "Everyone's been on a show before. Everyone knows how it works. Everyone knows how to get screen time and make drama and stuff like that. ... I think this show, to some degree, everyone had a little bit of a strategy."

Realizing too late that "Perfect Match" was not solely a dating show got Izzy Zapata ("Love is Blind" Season 5) sent home in Episode 2 after he unsuccessfully pursues Micah Lussier ("Love is Blind" Season 4).

"I definitely went in (with a) 'Love is Blind' mentality − real deep and kind of looking for marriage," he says. "I should've went in a little bit more lighthearted, kind of more with a game plan."

Micah says she suffered from the same weakness: "I kind of, as usual, led with my heart and forgot that there was a game going on, unfortunately for me."

"Was there a game?" Xanthi jokingly interjects.

From left, Kaz Bishop, Stevan Ditter, Harry Jowsey, Bryton Constantin and Izzy Zapata are seen on Season 2 of "Perfect Match."
From left, Kaz Bishop, Stevan Ditter, Harry Jowsey, Bryton Constantin and Izzy Zapata are seen on Season 2 of "Perfect Match."

"I don't think I won anything," Micah laments.

Tolú Ekundare ("The Trust" Season 1), who was unexpectedly dumped by Dom Gabriel ("The Mole" and "Perfect Match" Season 1), echoes this sentiment. "I was like: 'OK, I can't go in as guarded. I have to allow myself to be a little more vulnerable,'" Tolú says. "I led with my heart instead of my brain."

"And how did that work?" Micah asks dryly as the women laugh.

"I learned that, you know what? My brain is always going to take first place from now on," Tolú says.

Episodes 7-9 of "Perfect Match" drop June 14; the finale streams June 21.

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